From the Desk of King D- Miami Correspondent
Sorry guys for my absence. I was cruising the Western Caribbean and Mexico and just made it back to the MIA. I hope to have pictures soon from my cruise, and how drunk I was in Mexico…can you say “open bar”? Any way something very interesting happened on the cruise that got my wheels turning upstairs. And I would like to hear your guys’ opinion on a very awkward situation that happened on the cruise.
Here is the situation: I went on the cruise with two friends from the NYC. My best friend Tyson and his friend, Shannon. (Their names have been changed to protect their identity). Tyson is somewhat of a “boy“ sober. And Shannon is a bi-sexual girl. We were sitting down at dinner, the first night of the cruise, with two other couples, a Chinese couple, and another white couple from Queens. As dinner progressed and about 5 cocktails later Tyson’s true side comes out and the more feminine he got. That is how he is. I could see across the table that this started to make the white guy and the Chinese guy very uncomfortable. It was very weird for me seeing all of this play out, but I know how Tyson gets on his way to getting drunk. He goes from somewhat “boy” to straight up “flamer”. And I love him regardless. But it seems to me that Tyson should have calmed it down a bit when he say it was making others uncomfortable at the table. To me it seemed the right thing to do. Tyson would have never acted that way, sober or intoxicated, at his barber in the Bronx. Some people may disagree with me on that. But Tyson’s femininity would draw a positive reaction in an unlikely way during our stay in Mexico.
Even though Tyson’s femininity had a negative vibe at the dinner the night before, it took on another vibe the next day at the beach in Mexico. Of course, they were plenty of DL kats on the cruise. And fortunately, we had plenty of them join us at the beach in Mexico, on our shore excursion. When we went to the beach, we had open bar. Of course, we were all drunk as hell, which brought out Tyson’s femininity once again. And of course, my gaydar was up and me and my friends clocked all the phyne DL kats walking the beach with their girlfriends. But instead of them being uncomfortable with my friend, they embraced it. And in a certain way, being drawn to Tyson’s femininity. Case in point, one of the DL kats who had snuck away from his girlfriend while she was in the restroom, comes over to our section of the beach and asks us what we were doing tonight, and if he could hang out with us, even while Tyson is basically doing high kicks in the sand. It was all so weird. And there was definitely some other guys who wanted to come over but didn’t have the balls or their girlfriends were cock-blocking. It was definitely two extremes where Tyson’s femininity affected others differently.
I still think Tyson should have calmed it down at the dinner table. But would he have gotten the same response at the beach from the DL guys with their girlfriends if he hadn’t acted the way he does. What do you think?
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